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Do's and Don'ts for Parents
You are a parent of a schooler and it is obvious that you do care about your child's success in school and other kinds of activities your sweet son or daughter is involved in. Being a responsible parent you realize that all the achievements you kid make in teaching new and having hobbies in his/her young years will have a great effect on the his/her development and life-success. Is it easy for your child to catch up with school tasks? Do you worry for his/her contacts with kids of the same age, with teachers? Teachers also play an important role in the lives of their students, but being a parent is a huge responsibility. You do want to help your child but what to start with? You can be a great help to your children if you will observe these "do's and don't's" about tests and testing: • Don't be too anxious about a child's test scores. If you put too much emphasis on test scores, this can upset a child. • Do encourage children. Praise them for the things they do well. If they feel good about themselves, they will do their best. Children who are afraid of failing are more likely to become anxious when taking tests and more likely to make mistakes. • Don't judge a child on the basis of a single test score. Test scores are not perfect measures of what a child can do. There are many other things that might influence a test score. For example, a child can be affected by the way he or she is feeling, the setting in the classroom, and the attitude of the teacher. Remember, also, that one test is simply one test. • Meet with your child's teacher as often as possible to discuss his/her progress. Ask the teacher to suggest activities for you and your child to do at home to help prepare for tests and improve your child's understanding of schoolwork. Parents and teachers should work together to benefit students. • Make sure your child attends school regularly. Remember, tests do reflect children's overall achievement. The more effort and energy a child puts into learning, the more likely he/she will do well on tests. • Provide a quiet, comfortable place for studying at home. • Make sure that your child is well rested on school days and especially the day of a test. Children who are tired are less able to pay attention in class or to handle the demands of a test. • Give your child a well rounded diet. A healthy body leads to a healthy, active mind. Most schools provide free breakfast and lunch for economically disadvantaged students. If you believe your child qualifies, talk to the school principal. • Provide books and magazines for your youngster to read at home. By reading new materials, a child will learn new words that might appear on a test. Ask your child's school about a suggested outside reading list or get suggestions from the public library.
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